Yep, console! I added him to the marriage faction with "addfac," used "setrelationshiprank" to set our relationship above "acquaintance," then talked to him with an Amulet of Mara on. There was already a marriage candidate with his VA (Sorex) so the dialogue transferred. Phinis Gestor, Bothela, and Lisbet came to our wedding (I was roleplaying a Dibella worshiper and ended up doing a lot in Markarth). (: